After getting back from Croatia, I feel like the time has just been zipping by. This is my last week of school! WHAT?! :( I can’t believe I only have 2 weeks left in Bielefeld and 3 left in Germany.
I feel like this last month has been the month of “lasts”.
One of the “lasts” this month was my last German class. We’ve had one, four-hour class a week and it has been really fun. Our teacher was really eccentric and made class unforgettable. In our last class she had us all hoId hands and feel each other’s energy and send each other good vibes… ;) I am pretty pleased with most of my German, but of course there’s things I want to improve. I really hope I can keep using it and learning (somehow) in Juneau.

Some goodbyes have started. The only other American I know here, Chase, left a couple weeks ago and this week the goodbyes have been piling up. :(

Before I get too negative though, this month has also been full of random adventures and fun times!
I…
…had Felix’s parents in Bielefeld for a day during “Nordrhein-Westfalen Day”, a huge even in our state that this year Bielefeld hosted! I showed them around Bielefeld and got to play tour guide auf Deutsch, which was…hopefully helpful, haha. I tried :D
…Went to Holland again for a Saturday market in Enschede, a city that we students can get to FOR FREE with our semester tickets! I went with one of my wonderful friends I met at my English-speaking church here. We bought some pretty flowers that I then brought to Felix’s mom when I…




…Went to the world’s largest Schützenfest in Hannover! Every shooting/rifle club was in a big parade that went through the town and ended at the same grounds where we went to Oktoberfest. It was similar to the Oktoberfest but much bigger! There were so many rides, so much food, and many giant beer tents and bars!


…Made Russian Pelmeni with my Russian friend Maria and my flatmate Kari! AHH I have loved pelmeni ever since I ate it in Juneau and to make real pelmeni from scratch was so fun and tasty!



…Went to Felix’s graduation from gymnasium (high school) and Abiball. Graduating from a gymnasium here is technically like graduating from American high school, except (in my opinion) the German system is much harder and is probably equivalent to at least the first year of college. Their school system is much more complicated, and to finish at a gymnasium means you get the highest possible high school graduation, the Abitur. The students take rigorous tests and grades from the last 4 semesters are factored into it. So it’s really exceptional to get it and something to be proud of! Students who get the Abitur are guaranteed acceptance at a university. Graduation was really nice, it started with a quaint church service and then we all walked over to the school. I couldn’t understand everything because some of the speakers spoke really fast, but it was a small class and it was fun to hear their teachers talk about them. They sang a song together as a class, “Hoch auf uns” (A Toast to Us” or “To Us”), a popular song here and I thought it was really fitting. I knew a few of the other kids in his class from my times being in Laatzen, I was really happy for all of them! After graduation, we had champagne together with the other parents. But AFTER that, we went to a nice restaurant to celebrate Felix. :)

And then the next day was Abiball. I had always thought it was like American prom, but it’s totally not! For starters, the Abiball was much more about the families and it was formal. Felix’s Abiball was held at a dance studio (the perfect venue!) and had a really nice dancefloor and terrace. The families all accompanied the graduates, most had their grandparents and even siblings there. Everyone was dressed nicely. Teachers were also there. There was a nice buffet dinner and we all sat and drank together. They voted for a “king” and “queen”, even though Felix said they usually didn’t do that. One of the students was a professional Latin dancer, so there was even a bit of a show! There was a parent-graduate dance, and then an open dance floor. Everyone, graduates, parents, and grandparents, danced the standard dances, like disco fox or jive. It was SO much more fun and classier than the usual American prom where students generally grind on each other. After the family part was over, at 11, the “After-Show Party” started, where friends joined the graduates and it was like a typical dance party, except everyone was still dressed nicely and still actually dancing (even if a bit drunk). I really like how grinding is totally not a thing in Europe. It’s not my thing anyways, but even if I did, I think people in a club would look at me like I’m crazy.
All in all, I thought Abiball was much nicer than prom because it was more formal and family-oriented. The best part of prom for me, anyways, was always the dinner and activities like pictures with the families before prom and then afterwards doing something fun (Valley Hotel waffles, anyone?). So Abiball was all of that! For the cost of tickets, Abiball was worth much more than the overrated, overpriced prom tickets. I had a great night and a great time celebrating with Felix, and I’m so thankful I got to experience this part of German culture!



…watched the World Cup while being in Germany and it was SUPER DUPER fun!! Nobody in America even seems to really care (or at least in Alaska) but Germany was pumped. Whenever they won, everyone drove through the streets honking their cars. I’ve become good friends with a couple boys from my German class who are also really into soccer, so we watched most of the games together, which was really fun! We got together a few times to play soccer at a nearby field. Every time we played, more and more people we didn’t know would randomly show up and join, it was so fun! It was always just guys, but they still let me play with them, haha.
AND Germany WONNNNN! :D I saw the final match in the “VIP” section of the public viewing in Hannover (Felix is so wonderful). When Germany won, fireworks went off in celebration! Such a fun atmosphere and it was awesome to be in such a large, excited crowd!









…On the last day of school, the international office organized a farewell dinner for us. What a sad/happy dinner! It was so good to see everyone, but also know that this might be another painful “last”. UGH.
Before I went to the farewell dinner, I had coffee with Anne, the fantastic fellow-ISEPer friend who picked me up on my VERY FIRST day in Bielefeld. We only met once in the year (IKEA trip, yayyy) and saw each other in passing a few times. Talking with her about the whole year and the experience gave me a chance to reflect and I felt a few pangs of nostalgia already?!
After the dinner, my friends and I went to a really nice spot in the forest that had big open fields and a perfect place for a fire. We made flower crowns while roasting bratwurst and drinking (I was eating cookies, for the record…very me, haha), and listening to the music the others made (people brought guitars, a flute, a reed instrument that looked like a tiny clarinet, drums, and a rainstick! And some were fantastic singers!) It was such a wonderful evening and sunset, I could have stayed there all night, but I couldn’t because in the morning…








…I went hiking in the Teutoburger Wald on the organized trip with the International Office! We hiked about 7km between two famous landmarks in Nordrhein-Westfalen. We started at Hermanns-Denkmal monument outside of Detmold and hiked to Externsteine, which is also outside of Detmold. It was an all-day trip , including transportation to and from Detmold. At Hermans-Denkmal, we climbed to the top of the monument and looked out over the region. They said on a good day, you can see the Sparrenburg in Bielefeld! The hike itself also had some really nice views. Along the way, we went through some adorable hill villages where I’m 100% sure I want to retire when I’m old! It reminded me of Bavaria, with the “mountains” and little traditional villages. We also came across patches of berries along the way, so of course we had to make a couple detours! At the end, the Externsteine was really cool, we walked out of the forest and the suddenly, these giant rocks were just there! Our international office leader said that they are believed to be formed from a glacier long ago, but that they don’t reaaaally know. It was a great, long day.






Hermanns-Denkmal



Externsteine
And now, I’m writing this on a train…IN BELGIUM! Felix and I are spending this week travelling in Belgium and Amsterdam. I am SO excited to see Amsterdam again and, of course, explore Belgium. I have my laptop with me juuuuuuust in case I decide to start my 5 final papers, haha. Or at least I’ll try to brainstorm ;)
I can’t believe my time here is almost over. I got a little emotional while filling out the evaluation/survey for exchange students returning to UAS. It was hard to put into mere words how much I’ve learned and experienced. Since I’m travelling this week, I’ll miss the last days of some friends, and saying final goodbyes was a really weird feeling. “Have a happy life” just doesn’t sound right to say to people you’ve experienced the roller-coaster of exchange student life with. I felt this last semester too, and it was hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that I’m saying goodbye to people that I might very well never see again. I experienced this during March, when I travelled that month and met so many people that I shared once-in-a-lifetime experiences with, and it made me indescribably sad to think that maybe I’ll never see them again in my lifetime.
But for now, this is not another “last” ;) I’m aiming for one more blog post before this journey is over, a “last” to talk about such things, and we’ll see how much I have to say about Belgium and summer-time Amsterdam. :)
Bis zum Nächstes Mal!
P.S. DEUTSCHLAND WELTMEISTER 2014!!!!!!!!